A strong woman is the full package. She has strength, independence, high standards, and an intense personality. She isn’t the type of woman that wants to change you or control you, but she is the woman that wants to enhance your life.
At first, she will come across as cold, unimpressed, and hard to please. She has been through so many negative experiences and coming off strong is her natural self-defense technique. It scares the boys and assholes away. But underneath that hard exterior — she is a good woman. She is the woman that will bring many positives to your life. She is the solid foundation in which you can build your life on.
1. A strong woman will expose you to your strengths and weaknesses.
She will show you just how amazing and powerful you are. She knows your capabilities and will remind you of them when you need it. She will heighten your strengths but will also point out things that you need to work on. She won’t take it easy on you if you aren’t doing your best, she will push you to reach your full potential. No, she doesn’t want to boss you around or tell you what to do—instead, she will encourage you to do your best.
2. A strong woman will respect your role in her life as her man.
Yes, she is a bit of a control freak and likes to be in charge, but she knows that sometimes she needs to step back and let you take the lead. She won’t treat you as an inferior or superior. She will respect you as the man of the relationship. She doesn’t want to compete with you; she wants to be a team so you can live the best possible lives together.
3. A strong woman will inspire you to look your best.
She eats well, works out and tries to get enough sleep. She doesn’t drop the ball when it comes to taking care of herself physically. And she isn’t going to let her man be a couch potato and not take care of himself either. She will drag your lazy ass out the house to the gym or out for a walk/run. She may even inspire you to stay healthy without pressuring you whatsoever. After all, having a fit, strong girlfriend is an incentive to want to look your very best.
4. A strong woman will motivate you.
She is very dedicated and it shows in everything she does. She is a go-getter, and her unyielding ambition will motivate you to pursue all your goals and dreams. She will motivate you to succeed further in life.
5. A strong woman will lift you up.
She will light up your world when you fall into darkness. She will hold your hand so you can face your inner demons together. She will always be there to lift you up because she knows that when she is down, you will be the one to lift her up as well.
6. A strong woman will love you wholeheartedly.
She will love you harder than you’ve ever been loved before. She will love you unconditionally, as long as you respect her and love her the way that she deserves to be loved. She loves with everything she’s got — and this kind of love is the one you can’t find anywhere else.
7. A strong woman will make your life better.
You know that she will be your encouragement on bad days and the first one to congratulate you on good days. You will find yourself smiling for no reason every time you think of her. She will make you feel more at ease because you know that whatever happens, she’ll always be there. She’ll give you a new outlook on life; she will open your eyes and you will be able to see things in many different ways. She’ll expose you to things you’ve never tried before. She is the woman that will help you evolve into the man you aspire to be.
If you’re lucky enough to have a strong woman in your life, you will become the best man you can possibly be.
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