I grew up in a conservative family; a family whose views are very traditional and very against change. That being said, I grew up in a generation that embraced change and embraced the differences among people. Most of my family members (including those around my age) are very close-minded and unaccepting. They don’t appreciate those who are not like them; those who see the world in a different light. They are intolerant and poke fun at those who disagree with them, so clearly, our views are completely different.
The topic of politics is no different in my conservative family. I have had many heated debates with different members of my family about the issues citizens of our country face. I have tried to reason with them and get them to see things the way I do. But because these problems do not affect them, they don’t see any reason to change their minds. There have been many times where I was not allowed to speak my mind or have an opinion about politics simply because my views did not match my family’s opinions.
My family is not part of any one political party. In fact, I was sheltered from politics for most of my life. I was never given a reason, it was a fixed contest and whoever won was “it.” There was no point in trying. My parents never voted. They never tried. They just sat there complaining, and they still do. I think they are more afraid of the government than anything. They don’t like anything radical or new. They don’t want anyone to be president that isn’t a white, conservative male. They want someone who thinks exactly the way they do.
At this point in my life, I am not exactly sure what my beliefs are in regards to politics. I know that I am not conservative completely like my family, but being raised in that environment led me to believe a few things from the conservative side that are worth holding on to. It’s not all bad, but at the same time, I think it’s important to be more open and have different ideas. I don’t want to be labeled to a specific party because to be quite honest my opinions may change in a few years.
I have never been interested in politics much, but I am fascinated by those who are. I always wondered what it was like to pick a side and believe everything that party believes. Had I not been completely sheltered from the subject as a child, I might have a more solid grasp on the concept, but for now, I’m still trying to figure it all out. College helps because I get to be around people that can truly enlighten me on different opinions and views, as well as the different political parties.
I don’t feel as though I need to pick a political side. I don’t think who I am is defined by who I think our President should be or where I stand politically. When it comes time to vote I will choose the person I feel is best fitted for the position. The political party is not a concern for me. I understand the purpose of the parties and why we have them. I also think it’s important to have people who support the different sides, but I’m not sure where I stand and for now, I’m okay with that. I did get some views from my family, such as not needing to pick a side, but some opinions are all my own.
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